Names

This has been on my mind lately due to some recent encounters. So when you name your child, for us it was a huge responsiblity. For our kids we wanted something unique, nothing mainstream or any name that was popular. We searched baby books, looked at top 100 lists to make sure the names we were picking weren't on there. That's just us. So we come across the name Adelaide. We loved it but we thought we'd modernize it a little and call her Adelynn. Ok we totally thought we were making it up. We didn't even realize how close it was to Madelynn or Madison. So come to find out these days that the name Adelynn is on the top 100 list. OK, so let's just say how frustrated that makes me. I even thought the other day that we should rename her (just a passing thought). We also find out that along with the girl she was a flower girl with, who is the same age, who's name is Adelynn, that one of Dwayne's old mission companions has a girl and they named her Adelynn (he hasn't talked to him since his mission). FRUSTRAING. And get this, so one of the boy names that I really like is Colby or Kolby (either spelling) and they just had a little boy and guess what they named him, you got it. I guess I'm glad it wasn't Nolan because that would be too freaky.
Is my frustration with this unreasonable???? What am I to do. I decided that I would name my next girl Gertrude, I don't think anyone would use that, do you???? :)
Just doing a little venting. Anyone else feeling the same way????
I guess it's not the name but what our kids make of it and how they define themselves, and the place they make in the World, setting themselves apart from everyone else that counts......... but it's still frustrating!